Read each of the following questions very carefully and pick the response that best describes you. Don�t spend too much time on each question -- it�s best to follow your first reaction and you should respond quickly and honestly. When in doubt, consider how those who know you best would rate or describe you.
| I want a partner who� | Irrelevant | Matters little | Matters a bit | Must have |
| 1. Shares my zest for life. | ||||
| 2. Is very passionate about his/her work. | ||||
| 3. Understands that economic security in a relationship is fundamental to emotional security. | ||||
| 4. Holds a job that reflects success in his/her field. | ||||
| 5. Has no credit card debt. | ||||
| 6. Has his/her money tied up in long-term planning for a more secure future. | ||||
| 7. Is climbing the corporate ladder. | ||||
| 8. Is the boss in his/her work place. | ||||
| 9. Is driven by making as much money as possible. | 10. Is in a well-respected profession, like a doctor or lawyer. |
| I want a partner who� | Irrelevant | Matters little | Matters a bit | Must have |
| 11. Is not afraid to let me see the real him/her. | ||||
| 12. Is interested in having sex frequently. | ||||
| 13. Is healthy and robust. | ||||
| 14. Is extremely articulate and savvy in the way s/he communicates and interacts with others. | ||||
| 15. Prefers that affection be expressed in physical ways. | ||||
| 16. Has no past relationship baggage. | ||||
| 17. Considers my preferences when deciding how to look when going out. | ||||
| 18. Makes me seem more attractive or desirable. | ||||
| 19. Exactly matches my vision of the ideal look or image. | 20. Increases my social status. |
| I want a partner who� | Irrelevant | Matters little | Matters a bit | Must have |
| 21. Is willing to try new activities and experiences to learn and grow as a couple. | ||||
| 22. Is always striving to learn and grow as a person. | ||||
| 23. Does not gossip about others. | ||||
| 24. Is into self-improvement. | ||||
| 25. Lives by the principle of work hard and play hard. | ||||
| 26. Is curious and cosmopolitan. | ||||
| 27. Takes health and nutrition very seriously. | ||||
| 28. Is a risk-taker in his/her personal life. | ||||
| 29. Takes exercise and physical fitness very seriously. | 30. Prefers inside activities over outdoor activities. |